i rmb writing about changes before, how change is the only constant.
and then totally digressing from the topic planned.
now i wonder what motivates change.
what constitutes a valid reason for a change.
i realise the universe doesnt revolve around two people.
the sphere of influence is vast beyond expectations.

Richard Bolles

I have always argued that change becomes stressful and overwhelming only when you've lost any sense of the constancy of your life. You need firm ground to stand on. From there, you can deal with the change.